Tuesday, 25 September 2018

How to Get Ex Love Back: Stop Being Vulnerable



The fear of the unknown

As humans we all have a fear of the unknown which leads to resisting changes that come into our life. People see the biggest transformation in themselves when they feel connected to someone. A deep connection can bring changes in our personal traits and even behavior. This is what often happens with a partner. Husband and wife when spending a great deal of time together soon starts to act like or sound likes one another without even noticing it.
If you have ever had a strong connect connection with your former boyfriend/ girlfriend, this ‘how to get ex love back guide’ will definitely work for you!

Here are some basic steps you can follow to get your love back as per the human psychology-

1.      Adopting changes –lose your vulnerability

If you don’t make adjustment or modify your habit according to the needs partner he/she might be overwhelmed by your behavior. This is the situation with cause’s problems in relationships. Once you make someone the part of your life, they start knowing everything about you.  There are a few we don’t want anyone about our self because they make us vulnerable.

Love is the name of losing vulnerabilities and feeling comfortable with a person.  This might sound difficult but once you excel in this art you bringing a change in yourself that will keep your emotionally stable and in a mindful state. Once your mind achieves mindfulness it becomes easier to understand why she/ he left you in the first place.

Another great way to analyze the situation is Astrology. Famous Muslim Astrologers would study your and her/his natal chart to understand the reason for conflicts. They can rationally explain your ex-partner’s behaviour and what lead him/ her to leave you.

2.      Stop contacting -  

You partner left you for a reason.He/she didn’t want your company anymore. If you keep on following them you cut your chances of reconnection. 
Don’t stalk them on social media, over phone text messages.You couldn’t understand the perspective of your ex which leads the situation to gout of your control.

Give him/her some space. Soon you’ll realize there are the things you can enjoy without him/her. He/she might miss you after a period of time.

 The waiting period should be at least four weeks. If he/she doesn’t contact you, forgetting him/her is the best for you.
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If your ex-partner contacts you before the waiting period, ask him/ her to give you more time. In case you accidentally bump into each other don’t get impatient. Have a short conversation of two-three minutes and leave.



3.      Don’t get overwhelmed by emotions

Showering love to a partner can be a fatal mistake.  Let your ex-partner enjoy his/her own life and don’t try to control them by telling what he/ she should and shouldn’t do.
Things you shouldn’t do

1.    Using pity to compel him/ her to love you back
2.    Telling how much you love him/her
3.    showing you are jealous of his new partner
4.    Using other guys you aren’t dating to make jealous
5.    Asking him personal questions

Here is what you need to do -
1.    Release your emotional baggage
2.    Give yourself the time to heal
3.    Follow your routine and make yourself better  at professional front

4. Love yourself again
After an ugly break-up people often fill themselves with negativity and stop taking care of their own needs. The worst – consequently people start drinking and smoking forget the lost love.
You are doing more harm to yourself, stop! Your mind is working against you. Be stronger and heal from your pain. If you are broken heart is making it impossible to let go of the past contact a black magic specialist in UK. They can help you get over your lover and even bring him/her back in your life.

Stop over analyzing what happened between you and your lover! Utilize this guide to attract him/ her again into your life.